Imagine the raw, gut-wrenching pain of losing a close colleague, only to have that sorrow play out in front of the world—it's a reminder that grief doesn't follow a script, and it hits hardest when we least expect it. But here's where it gets controversial: in an era of social media, how much of our personal mourning should be shared publicly? Let's dive into the touching yet heartbreaking story of Ghanaian social media star Ama Yeboah, whose deep mourning for her fellow content creator Osanju has captured the nation's attention, sparking debates on the nature of loss and public vulnerability.
Ama Yeboah, a beloved figure in Ghana's online community, has been openly grieving the passing of her colleague Osanju even after his burial rites. The funeral took place on Saturday, October 4, 2025, at the Atwima Koforidua School Park in the Ashanti Region—a location that holds significance for many in the area as a community gathering spot. Osanju, who was just 30 years old, tragically passed away on September 1, 2025, after battling Chronic Myeloid Leukaemia (CML) for several years. For those new to this, CML is a type of blood cancer that affects the bone marrow and can be managed with treatments like targeted therapies, but it often leads to complications if not caught early—think of it as a relentless foe that disrupts the body's ability to produce healthy blood cells, much like how a storm can uproot a garden.
His death came suddenly after he was rushed to the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital following an overnight illness, and it occurred just months after he had mourned his own mother, Amonu. This double blow within a short span underscores the cruel unpredictability of life, where one loss can amplify the pain of another, leaving families and friends reeling.
The funeral drew a crowd of notable figures from Ghana's entertainment and political scenes, including comedian Asafo Powers, actor Last Hero, Ashanti Regional Minister Dr. Frank Amoakohene, acclaimed actress Nana Ama McBrown, and commentator Appiah Stadium. They all gathered to pay their respects, turning the event into a poignant tribute to Osanju's vibrant spirit.
But the story doesn't end at the graveside. A TikTok video that went viral, spotted by our team at YEN.com.gh, shows Ama Yeboah in her home, engulfed in sadness as she honors her late friend. Dressed in an all-black T-shirt emblazoned with Osanju's photo, she sits on her porch, tears streaming down her face, while attempting to eat a simple meal of beans and plantain from a bowl. It's a quiet, intimate moment—yet one that speaks volumes about how grief can rob even the basic joys of life, like enjoying food. As conversations buzz around her, Ama Yeboah remains lost in thought, gazing off into the distance, her silence a testament to the depth of her sorrow.
You can watch the video of Ama Yeboah weeping and finding it hard to eat following Osanju's burial here: [https://www.tiktok.com/@maame_sika8/video/7557329899627744568]. And this is the part most people miss: this footage emerged just days after another shocking incident at the funeral itself, where Ama Yeboah collapsed in distress upon viewing Osanju's remains. Accompanied by her family, including her mother Obolo, she was overcome by emotion. In a separate video obtained by YEN.com.gh, her relatives are seen in panic, splashing water on her to revive her after she fainted. She was quickly taken to the hospital for treatment and later released, highlighting how overwhelming grief can manifest physically—it's not just emotional; it can literally knock you off your feet, much like how stress might trigger a migraine or fatigue in everyday life.
Check out the video of Ama Yeboah being rushed to the hospital after collapsing at Osanju's funeral here: [https://yen.com.gh/entertainment/292133-osanjus-funeral-ama-yeboah-oheneba-jude-pay-respects-tears/].
The public's response has been a mix of empathy and reflection, with social media users flooding platforms with heartfelt comments. For instance, Afia Adepa finest remarked, 'It didn't hit her during the one-week observation, but she has now realised Osanju is gone😭😭💔💔💔.' Jenny Blinks added, 'Those who haven’t lost their loved ones will think it is a joke.' Ephya Adutwumwaa shared, 'Oh ama ampaa ne gob3 hmm Kafra wate 😭😔.' And Lady Like Vee offered comfort: 'Aww, Ama, take heart, okay. He has really suffered from this illness. Let him go and rest. You guys brought him peace and happiness, and that’s enough. God bless anyone who brought him close and made him happy 🙏💯.'
Adding to the layers of sorrow, Osanju's father, Agya K, was also seen in profound anguish during the service, muttering to himself in a video that tugged at many hearts. Ghanaians online expressed worry for his well-being, especially after losing both his son and wife within six months—a timeline that raises questions about the cumulative toll of bereavement on families.
This tale of mourning isn't just about one person's pain; it invites us to ponder broader themes. Is it fair to judge how someone grieves, especially when amplified by social media? Some might argue that public displays like Ama's help normalize vulnerability, while others could see it as oversharing in a world already saturated with curated emotions. And here's a controversial twist: could the spotlight on such grief sometimes overshadow the deceased's story, turning personal loss into a spectacle? What do you think—does sharing grief online bring comfort or just more scrutiny? Do you agree that the timing of emotional breakdowns, like Ama's delayed reaction, shows grief's unpredictable nature, or is there something more to it? Share your perspectives in the comments below; we'd love to hear your thoughts and spark a meaningful conversation!
Proofreading by Samuel Gitonga, copy editor at YEN.com.gh.
Source: YEN.com.gh
